so what do you say to someone who said i love you? but you dont feel the same way...
Last night my boyfriend told me he loved me..i didn't know what to say because i'm not there yet. So any suggestions on what I should even say or do?? Should I just tell him i'm not to that point yet? I like him a lot but I just don't want to lead him on or anything..i'm sure i could get to the point of saying the I LOVE YOU..but not right now..
well... it depends. have you had sex with him? if not maybe he is saying it to have sex with you. if you have then it doesnt really matter. or maybe you havent and he is just being sincere. if you dont want to say it then dont. tell him you really like him tho. he doesnt want to be shot down completely. i think the first time i said it to my ex we were at the point where i knew she would say it back.
when my boyfriend first told me he loved me i was sort of in the same situation as you. and i didnt really say anything, i just smiled and kissed him, and left it there. i'm sure if he was being sincere about it, then he would rather u wait till you actually mean it to say it, rather than saying it just because he did.